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February is the month of St Valentine’s Day: “luv” , lurv” , “love” is in the air! And “love is all you need”: at least, that is what The Beatles sang forty years ago, and they should know. (I think Sir Paul does, too.)

Love makes the world go around. Love is chocolatey, or sugary fruits. Love is red roses. Love is a weekend in Paris on Eurostar. (Unless you happen to live in, say, New York, in which case you have a problem. They haven’t extended the tunnel under the Atlantic. Yet.) Love is soft lights and sweet music from a solo violin in a restaurant over a good meal. (I could live with that: if the violinist is good.)

St Val’s Day is another day in the year when commerce tries to separate the soft-hearted, and soft-headed from their cash.

Girl:

Do you love me?
Boy:

Yes
Girl:

Would you die for me?
Boy:

No. Mine is an undying love.


Girl:

You remind me of the sea.
Boy:

You mean I’m restless, powerful, unpredictable.
Girl:

No. You make me sick.

In tennis, love means “nothing”. It comes from the French word for egg – “l’oeff”, because, in profile, a hen’s egg figure resembles a zero. In modern parlance, love too means nothing if its association and interpretation is anything to go by in the context of popular song. Today’s Pop song lyrics see no further than one-night stands. What happened to the likes of –

“ … In time Gibraltor may crumble,
the Rockies may tumble,
they’re only made of clay.
But my love is here to stay.”

February 14th was the day when the birds began to pair off. It is a date built into avian diaries. Chaucer (a poet), in the Middle Ages (an old poet) wrote,

“For this was sent on Seynt Valentyne’s Day
When every foul cameth ther to choose his mate.”

So, because of what the birds were doing this was considered a good time for humans to exchange tokens of love. Had Chaucer been born in the southern hemisphere, then by February the mates would have been selected long before February. But that is just being otherwise, so let the poets have their licence. I wonder what Bill Oddy thinks? (Bill is a bird-man, and like Chaucer, English.)

I will tell you what I think; I think St Valentine’s Day should be everyday. A cup of tea; a packet of liquorice allsorts; washing the dishes; hanging out the wet washing. Love is growing old together. Love is respect given. Love isn’t just lyrical; it lasts. Love is expressed in patience, in seeing other points of view. Love involves brain as well as heart. Love is fidelity married to fondness.

This brand of love will help make the world go around, without making you dizzy and unbalanced. Long live love, and love lives long.




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The following comments are for "It's St Val's Day!"
by Sercombe

can't agree
Love? What does modern man know of love? Our society isn't about love, it's about one night stands, instant coffee, traffic accidents, Must See TV, designer footwear, action movies, cell phones, No Smoking signs, and a million other things to distract us from what's really important. There's never a time to just sit and think about what matters in life. We're always on the move, always bombarded with stimuli from every direction. We're told that there's something wrong with us if we don't fall in love, but how can we in a society where nobody actually takes the time to get to know anyone, where marriage can happen overnight and divorce is no longer the exception bu the norm? Love? I see no love here.

( Posted by: evil_bacteria [Member] On: February 5, 2004 )

living in a dream
I would like a world with the love you speak of . . . but it has been lost. evil bacteria is right, people are so busy "living a productive" life that they don't take time to really LIVE life. very depressing. anyway- i liked your message.

( Posted by: Elleta Jo Crismon [Member] On: February 6, 2004 )





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