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When I was a teen, the adults around me had a funny, serious and thought provoking way of informing us about teen pregnancy. We heard things like: you could become pregnant if you kissed a boy, or if a boy touched your little finger he would tell his friends he more or less had his way with you or your body, but most of all, becoming pregnant out of wedlock and while still a teenager would bring great embarrassment to you and your family.

And just when someone must have thought the teen pregnancy issue was becoming sort of manageable, we heard about the seventeen teens who supposedly made a pregnancy pact. It was a news story that shocked the nation, and as one wonders what more can be done to help curb the teen pregnancy issue, NBC came up with a reality show that might indeed send a message.

The show titled: The Baby Borrowers has a simple enough plot. Teenage couples are placed in charge of new born babies, so they would see first hand, what taking care of a baby is really all about.

And in a world in which most teens who become pregnant leave the nurturing of their new borns up to their own mothers or grandmothers, maybe this NBC show will deter some teens from even thinking of becoming mothers at such a young age.

For in this NBC reality show, as far as one can tell from the previews, it is the teens who are in charge of the diaper changing, feeding, bathing and babysitting of the babies. Not some older and experienced relative who comes to the rescue when the inexperienced teenage mother/father is acting as though she/he is freaked out by all the responsibility of what it takes to actually be a parent.

Maybe the teen pregnancy issue will never be in a situation in which there are no teen pregnancy cases in the world, but if educating teens about safe sex has not seemed to make a big enough impact, maybe, just maybe having some of these teen parents take care of their own new borns twenty four seven just might do something.

Maybe the folks at NBC had the right idea after all.

And for those of you who are interested, the reality show, The Baby Borrowers will air on NBC in a few days, June 25th 2008 at 8:00 PM central time.




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Peace and unity begin with all of us- Judy Ramsook




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The following comments are for "The Baby Borrowers, Maybe A Reality Show..."
by JudyRamsook

knocked up teens
Ah, Judy, how I wish you'd written this when my sisters got pregnant. I have five sisters and every single one was pregnant before eighteen! One got pregnant at fourteen!!!

Regarding the pact, it turns out it might have been a bit of a stretch. Our "honorable" Los Angeles Mayor is looking into the matter instead of focusing on things within his power. He's an eejit (as Shannon would say...).

Not sure I'll bother with the show. I tried every argument I knew when trying to keep my sisters virtuous but I failed miserably. Love their children but I could have waited a bit longer to meet them. Anyway, watching the show might take me back to my dissapointment in discovering the two youngest were pregnant.

Liked this column and, along with the show, I hope it smartens up a few teens.

( Posted by: desvelado [Member] On: June 26, 2008 )

knocked up teens
Hi Desvelado,

Thanks. And one thing I have learned about life so far is, it is sometimes difficult or impossible to save some people from themselves.

Because in the long run, they will always find a way to do what they want to do. The best we can do is advise and support them the best we could, and if they still choose the wrong path, you know you did what you could.

( Posted by: JudyRamsook [Member] On: June 26, 2008 )

Baby Borrowers
Judy,

I did watch the show and I noticed the guys were the more mature of the two...the girls were self absorbed spoiled brats...I wanted to slap someone ... Unfortunately they will probably still get preggers and pawn the babies off on grandma to raise while they party on...I know of what I speak...My son and I are raising my Autistic grandson while his biological mother (and I use the term loosely) Is drinking and drugging herself into oblivion ...Kacee

( Posted by: nitz kitty [Member] On: June 26, 2008 )

baby borrowers
Hi Nitz Kitty,

And thanks. What surprised me about the show was the girl who didn't want to wear the pregnancy outfit. I guess if this show had an elimination process, she might be the first to go.

( Posted by: JudyRamsook [Member] On: June 26, 2008 )

Safe Sex


Education strikes again

Wow there is a lot to answer for if you are educated….

It roughly translates into we are going to control the freakin asses off you’

I am all for teen pregnancies, spent every living moment trying to get inside one or other girls knickers… I thought safe sex was either not getting caught by mum and dad or making sure there were no obvious signs of ill health before you plunged in.

Isn’t that what doting grandparent’s all love to do…. Look after their kid’s babies….all the better if the kid’s are teenagers there is a good chance mum and dad are still young.

Where has all the family unity and bondage (whoops maybe used the wrong word there) gone these days. Parents cant wait to kick out their kids….Kids cant wait to get away from mum and dad.

As for borrow a baby…. I wouldn’t let another teenager anywhere near my newborn kids unless they were family or very close friends….. I think that is similar in the animal world…

Maybe the real problem is responsibility and not just the pregnancy aspect…..Both my children were born while I was very young, I would have like them even sooner….

Now my six grandkids are only as old as some of my friend’s own kids…… but guess who has his freedom now?…. And… Still young enough to enjoy the grandkids.

Eric

( Posted by: Fairplay [Member] On: June 26, 2008 )

Teen parents
Eric,
Certainly you are right in saying grandparents love to play with and look after the babies for a few hours then back they go to the parents who made them...You are free to enjoy your grandkids...others of us get stuck raising the kids of lazy asses who want to make babies and when things get tough...run away from their responsibilities ...By the way my Autistic grandson's mom is 43...
I think people should have babies when they are ready...in every sense of the word...body and mind...teens are not yet ready to give up their baby ways (there are always exceptions) and a teen girls body isn't ready to deliver babies as well as a girl in her 20s...The consequences from teen pregnancies don't show up until later on in life...
I didn't start having kids until I was 24...I think I was ready to accept raising a family and making sacrifices (there are many to make) ...I slept by my grown son's bed on the floor until his fever broke when he had Mono...I never threw my kids out...They were all in their late 20's when they moved out and Some of them came back and they brought their families with them...I gave up my bed and slept on a recliner...Never did I say What About Me????...I say grow up before bringing another human being in to this world...It is better for all of us...who have to support the ones who are abandoned ...Kacee

( Posted by: nitz kitty [Member] On: June 26, 2008 )

Kacee
Hi Kacee

Thanks for addressing my thoughts on the Judy thread….

It leads me to wonder if nature thinks (nay…prepares even) to reproduce at xx years why should our “intelligent view” override nature.

Surely the right thing is to go with nature? Sort of Go Green…… which apparently some do in the first few months anyway…

It appears that some would like their cake and eat it… it’s like I said a problem with education… no one forces the teenager to become pregnant, equally no one forces the granny to look after an unwanted kid.

Cynical maybe…. We were supposed to learn by our mistakes… however I am starting to feel people would like it to be against the law to make one…. A mistake that is.

China still has laws on babies…. Causing some to kill little girls…

Eric

( Posted by: Fairplay [Member] On: June 26, 2008 )

Potty Training
Judy,
I hope they have a segment on potty training...one of the most frustrating times moms and kids must go through...
I had three boys and the doctor told me not to bother trying to train them before the age of 4 because boys are stubborn...I followed his advice and it did make it easier for me...Going pee pee was easier than getting them to poo in the potty...because they wanted to be like daddy and stand at the toilet...I had 2 in diapers at one time ...the middle child wanted nothing to do with the potty chair ,but the youngest loved sitting naked on the potty, but wouldn't poo until he got that diaper on...I think that would make an interesting show segment...Those teeny boppers think infant poo stinks...wait till they get a wiff of the 2 year old...I'm loving this...Kacee

( Posted by: Nitz Kitty [Member] On: June 27, 2008 )





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