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I wonder what the mystery behind sex is. Every time a product is being advertised chances are you may find someone a lady perhaps creating some sex appeal to get you to buy the product. While we all agree sex is good which is why I am here and writing this article. As sweet as sex is how good is it if one partaker in it feels used and the other sees you as his conquest? Unfortunately this is what is happening in the modern culture today women degraded men prideful. How come in all music videos men are all clothed the ladies are nearly naked.
Is sex being used as a tool to degrade women while exalting men on the pedestal? I have come to realize that in all the videos and adverts it feeds the ego of men as women conquerors while the ladies are portrayed as desperate. Imagine the thought of ladies pictured swarming around one man. How desperate does that seem. I am a man and I happen to have an online profile to expose my writing. I kid you not most times the mail I receive is a lady wanting me to view her semi-nude online performance profile.
If the worth of a lady is to be measured by how a good body she has and how men are drawn to wanting to see or touch her breasts. Then something is wrong here. Introduce age factor one day the lady is going to age and no company wants to use her for adverts or beauty products. Then what happens the ladyís world caves around her she is old has been used no chance for her because the some other young female teenagers are now in the scene no part of their body is sagging. Then the reality dawns to the older lady how stupid could I have been the advertising executives never cared they just used my body to get sales.
This issue of ladies being dumped does not only occur in advertising it is rife in marriage. Imagine this, a man comes home one day from work announces he wants a divorce from his wife of eleven years who is now thirty six. Due to raising the kids the lady has mellowed a bit due to the pressures. The lady may not still have the homecoming queen body. The man never gave birth so he looks fit on form and now since the lady does not have the body that turned him on twelve years ago. He walks out on her and the kids, runs off with a young blonde he met on the bar. Honestly this is not fair to women. Now imagine the fate of the forty year old lady left by her husband alone few men want her or just want to use her she loses her self worth and esteem. Inside her she is like a fizzled drink if you trigger her she will just explode and cause damage. No wonder now there are cases of ladies drowning their children due to stress.
Now back to the men life has a way of avenging. The man will run off but will get some incurable disease and then in desolate situation he is in. He now remembers the family he walked out on tries to trace it after thirteen years. Finds the sons all grown have intense hatred for their father. Tries to convince his children to forgive him they canít he is thrown out. Years wasted the man just cannot take it anymore kills himself. What goes around comes around even if late. If you find yourself in such a position donít kill yourself at least first try a prayer to GOD. HE might just change your circumstances.
I have been doing some serious thinking perhaps before one gets a wife, you should find a companion. Someone you talk to her not just because her figure entices you but because you have a special friendship. This is because when age catches up with you both and your figures are no longer juicy. Then what makes you connect is what made you connect years ago the special friendship. I think to myself a ladyís worth is more than her body. Lady if all the music video director and advertising executives want is you to take off your clothes to have their product to sell ask him to take off his clothes. Furthermore the best message is better communicated from the horseís mouth. Donít cheapen yourself you are valuable and a treasure. Last minute advice, the mystery that attracts a real man to a lady is a covered secret when exposed it is a shame to be made fun off and poked by anyone.


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The following comments are for "Culture of Sex appeal"
by karugaj

i agree...
...this culture is loaded with images of sex appeal because we believe that is what is acceptable for the purposes of advancement and success...that is, if you have the goods. But I believe that since, today, a woman's survival isn't completely based on linking up with a man who can take care of her...I say she should do whatever pleases her sense of self.

"Flaunt it", says the old adage,... "and eat". From the perspective of many women, this is not a bad thing. It gives them the power to choose ---to use---their body when and how they wish. I don't think this is all bad.

Your opinions about the subject are noble and filled with a sense of class and style that doesn't seem to cut the edge these days. Perhaps those times will resurface and we could all get back to the essential feminine qualities lost in the shuffle.

( Posted by: innarae [Member] On: May 16, 2007 )

Powerfully Said
You make an excellent point with this dissertation. Once one makes oneself look trashy, that person will forever be viewed as trashy. If one degrades oneself, then how can others not get caught up in the degradation? I appreciate that you, as a man, sees the truth in beauty.


( Posted by: ArsPoet2789ica [Member] On: May 31, 2007 )

Nice Piece
I really enjoyed this piece, because I am trying to preach the same message. Women are given the weight of the world, while men claim it. We are quickly making progress in this area as more women stand up and say "Hey I have desires too." Why is it not "trashy" for a man to have many lovers while a women if caught is called a whore the rest of her life. Women I say have the same desires as men and we should make you men understand this better. It does not make us any worse than you are, we just exist with a double-standard.

( Posted by: lovesessence [Member] On: June 8, 2007 )

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