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Just who swings? Go to your local shopping center and take a look at the
people going through the register - regular every day average normal people.
These are your typical swingers, they are just normal people looking for a
little spice and excitement in their relationship. Go to swinger party or start
meeting people from a swinger site and
you very quickly learn that they are not devo’s or perverted in any particular
way. In the main a lot of couples are testing the waters, living out a fantasy
with a same sex experience or similar. Swinging couples demographics are
changing, younger couples are finding inspiration through
dating sites and experimenting with
swinging, the numbers of bi sexual women coming out of the closet is off the
charts, currently girls are not as shy about be attracted to the same sex and
they are making a statment with their actions. Swinging is not cheating, it’s
consentual which means no secrets and both partners are very aware of what takes
place. If your sneaking off and having a casual fling on the side then your a
cheater - not a swinger. Men will often be the first to initiate a swinging
experience and are often surprised at how readily their partners will consent to
the the idea - In practice a lot of time can pass between discussion and action
and many couples may never progress past this point even after an “in principal”
agreement. First time swingers should never feel pressured into sex, there
should be 100 % agreement between all parties and at least some chemistry to
make the experience as exciting as possible. If a partner gets cold feet or a
bad vibe then it is best practice to respect yoru partner and stop no matter how
badly you might want to proceed. Couples need to keep the communication lines
open at all times, its very important to have some clear boundaries. Swinging
can be fun, take the time to find the right partners and test the waters!

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by Maxine

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( Posted by: Maxine [Member] On: August 2, 2006 )

First time swingers?

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( Posted by: Ashmedai [Member] On: August 2, 2006 )

First Time
I read your article. There are several typos and grammatical errors that could be cleaned up to make it read better. One such example is

"they are not devo’s or perverted in any particular
way." - the implication is that they are perverted in a general way-

I work in a grocery store. I'll be watching the check-out line with new eyes- ;)

Swing on-

( Posted by: emaks [Member] On: August 2, 2006 )

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