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Life After Rejections

As writers, rejection is a hand we have to shake often. When you are at the beginning of your freelance writing career, and receive rejections, it is hard not to turn up your eyeballs and wail. Here, you had written this wonderful article or poem, and no one appreciated you. Sniff!

But if you are looking to be a working writer, get real. Experienced writers get rejections too. The difference is that they donít shrivel up and die. They toss aside the rejection note with elan, or simple press delete on the keyboard. And then they write another piece.

For developing a long term relationship with your writing Muse, the rules are simple:

1. Think positive - having an upbeat attitude really helps. Donít think the publishing world has blacklisted you if some of your work has been rejected.
2. Donít wait for her - the Muse has lots of house calls to make. If you wait for her to show up, she may never come. Just get in front of the computer and do your thing. Sheíll visit when its time.
3. Keep your spirits up - sagging spirits will result in lack lustre writing. Believe you have the best job in the world and donít let that flow of enthusiasm in your writing slow down for a minute.
4. Write regularly in your journal - this buddy is yours for life. The more you keep writing in your journal, the more seasoned a writer you will be. All your motivations and emotions, the craft and art of the written word will be clear to you.
5. Love the sound of the keyboard being busy - youíve got to develop a taste for instrumental music. In this case, it means the music of your fingers on the keyboard.
6. Join a writing group, online, or the one in your city - if youíre getting hit hard by rejections and must have a shoulder to cry on, find a writing group where you can let your tears flow. The members have all been there, done that. Their advice on life after the big ĎRí is genuine.
7. Look at your writing life through binoculars - step back for some time and ask yourself where you went wrong with your writing. Did you slant it to meet the particular publicationís needs?
8. Maybe itís time for a refresher course in writing - weíre not all born being smart wordsmiths. Consider if you can take a course to hone your craft. Or read a few good books on the writing process.
9. Do more research before sending your pieces - submitting poetry to a small business magazine will naturally garner a rejection. Donít submit your work as an attachment if the editor has asked for it to be pasted into the email.
10. Get busy - there are many ezines, magazines and newspapers in the world. So what if a couple have said no. Donít stop following your dream.




The following comments are for "Life after Rejections"
by Moushumi

Wise Words Indeed
I would also add that is worthwhile carefully reviewing any comments included in the rejection, particularly the ones that hurt!

( Posted by: YernasiaQuorelios [Member] On: January 31, 2006 )

I Keep my first rejection letter in a frame. One day when I make it big I will look back at it and laugh.

( Posted by: PAPALAS [Member] On: February 2, 2006 )

three cheers
You have definitely made so many budding freelancers feel so much better. Yes, for sure, the writing world is a lonely one. Just you, your thoughts, your dreams. Rejection letters now line the bottom of my birdcage. That's the only purpose they serve for me. I agree with you 100%. Sometimes you have to just pick your ego off the floor when receiving a rejection letter and go full throttle ahead. There will come a time when an editor says "Hey, I like this" and it will be a fireworks and champagne moment. We just have to be patience, work on our skills, try to always improve. Thanks for your uplifting advise. I'd like to share a quote that hangs on my wall, right above my computer for those low moments: "Use the talents that you possess for the woods would be very silent, if no birds sang, except the best.

( Posted by: mollie777 [Member] On: February 11, 2006 )

life after rejections
Rejections can be hard to take - I submitted what I thought was a good piece of writing and it came back so fast the stamp nearly burned off. It knocked me back for a while, but hopefully didn't put me off forever.

( Posted by: Gabion [Member] On: May 29, 2008 )

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