Kisses Between Classes – High School Relationships
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What is the one special day that couples yearn for more than anything? Sure, the first anniversary is important, but Valentines Day, according to most Bethel High School students, is the one important day you get to show that special someone how much you love them. But what does Valentines Day mean to couples and those who are single?
Single freshman Chrissie states: “We’re here because of love, Valentines Day is the day that we’re supposed to show our love for another person.” While single freshman Matt adds: “Seeing people exchange saliva in the hallways is the absolute low point of my day.”
Sophomore Chloe adds: “I’m getting him a teddy bear.” And of course, everyone has different ideas. “I’m remodeling our soon to be child’s bedroom, taking her out to dinner and buying her favorite peach roses,” says history teacher Mr. T. Expressing your love for your valentine anyway you please will be sure to make them smile, whether it’s through gifts or little surprises, such as chocolate, a teddy bear, or whatever creative idea someone has.
But what really makes someone have sincere feelings of love for another person? Is it the personality that the other may possess, their qualities, or is it that you feel comfortable around that special someone? Comfort is one thing that everyone looks for. Everyone loves having someone to go to with school problems, family problems, or even social problems because they know that the person that they’re talking to cares deeply and sincerely. That’s what makes a key relationship. Comfort and communication is necessary, because without it, there wouldn’t be a successful relationship. Great relationships begin by communication and that’s how they last. Sure, intimate moments are wonderful, but communication is key to the lock of that special and healthy relationship.
The hardest part of a relationship is the break up. I’m sure that we all know that it’s a stressful time, especially if you were attached to the person. The best way to get through it is to talk about it with someone else. What if you’re not open? Then why not write your thoughts down. Let your feelings out and write about it. But most importantly, talk to the person who has either broken up with you or who you are breaking up with.
Now, remember, Valentines Day is supposed to make that special someone happy…So be sure to head out to the stores or just stay at home to create a homemade gift. Either way I’m sure your sweetie will be pleased on the fourteenth.